On a subsequent visit after Jackie’s trip to India and Pakistan, the tone shifted. Caroline Hallemann, author of The Kennedys and the Windsors, says a lengthy lunch and wide-ranging conversation about horses gave the two women a real connection and opened the door to mutual respect.
When Jackie confided about life in the spotlight, the Queen responded sympathetically, reportedly saying, "One gets crafty after a while and learns how to save oneself," an exchange Hallemann highlights. The author also notes their similarities: both were mothers in the public eye with proximity to power but not direct political authority, and Jackie emerged as an unforgettable style icon.